Secrets troubles with Self Confidence
Who would want to do that? But strangely enough we often do things that actually sabotage our efforts to become confident. we would like to be confident but are you also secretly wishing to kill your own confidence?
Do you try to portray confidence when you actually feel weak and nimble on the inside?
You are not the only one with this problem. There are a lot of people struggling with this problem everyday. Know what happens when you resist something? even a thought? It comes back stronger. Now tell me when you choose to become confident? What is your primary reason? Do you hate being Confident? Do you dislike the idea of lack of confidence? Did you go through a bad experience due to your lack of confidence~Do you get bad time due to your low confidence}?
You may have some unconscious blocks that stops you from becoming a confident person. Want to find out what these blocks are? If you think you can never be confident, think again.
Lets check out the some of the most common blocks to self confidence.
Don’t Deserve to be confident
Hard to believe but many people have this problem. Consciously you say that you want to be confident yet deep down you think you don’t deserve it because you are not good enough as a person. It’s similar to believing you don’t deserve happiness or success. Until you resolve this block, it will be difficult to reach your goals.
You are afraid to be confident
Sometimes people are more afraid of changes they have to face due to success than due to failures. It is the same story with self confidence. If you become confident and begin to fulfill your goals and ambitions, it would bring a lot of change to your world. Many find change to be a scary prospect.
Do you believe confidence means arrogance
Perhaps you have met people who seemed overly confident - so confident in fact that they came across as arrogant and rather obnoxious. You might be worried that your confidence levels will be unstoppable and transform you into someone you don’t like.
You think certain people are born with a confidence gene and are ‘lucky’
You fear what others will think of the new, confident you.
Most of us care deeply what others think of us. Because a lack of confidence is so prevalent in our society, we are often surrounded by other people who are just as unconfident as we are. This creates a sense of bonding, a feeling of belonging. The ones close to us always reinforce that. Sometimes we have to change a few things in our life in order to become more confident and the ones who love us may not like this idea. They might feel threatened too and subsequently you might be worried that you will lose friends.
You may belive that you are very shy and you cannot be confident
Surprisingly people thing being shy means you should not be confident. In fact if you are shy becoming free from shyness should be a good reason why you want to become confident
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